Friday, July 2

Reasons why we love to love Arkansas

   


    A diamond in the rough, a hidden gem, the land of opportunity, The Natural State, these are just a few of the many names that have been given to the state we now call home.  While neither my husband nor I grew up here, this is where our love story  began.  In the middle of Lake Hamilton, that serendipitous afternoon in the Summer of ‘11, the beginning of the rest of my life.  From this beautiful state, we circled to other amazing places like New Zealand, Hawaii, and then came back full circle, the continuation of our love story as a family of 5 here in Arkansas.  

    Recently, even prior to this blessing of an opportunity to collaborate with Arkansas Tourism and their gracious sponsorship of this post, all the reasons for loving Arkansas has been a topic of many organic patio conversations that we have had with family and friends.  It’s actually one of the things I initially noticed when I moved here the first time in 2009 for residency training.  The locals love their state and always spoke about it in a positive light.  That was so refreshing and uplifting for me as a newcomer because there truly is an “Arkansas State of Mind.”  Honestly, it would be easy to hide our already hidden gem, however, as my selflessly generous husband so often reminds me, the best part of a good thing is when it is shared with others.  



Here are a few of the many reasons why we love to love Arkansas:


1.  Green space and nature


    Arkansas truly lives up to its name.  The Natural State has an abundance of accessible places to breathe in pure oxygen and become one with nature, all with minimal traffic.  I say accessible because you don’t have to drive or even walk far to experience the great outdoors, something that as human beings we so desperately crave and need to stay healthy physically, mentally, and spiritually.  There is so much thought and time poured into recreational parks, playgrounds, hiking trails, golf courses, and so much more.  We enjoy spending time biking at Two Rivers Park, exploring the wonder of the majestic Ozarks, waterfall chasing, photographing, fishing, and picnicking with our 3 precious daughters.  




When we lived downtown, we walked, scootered, or took the trolley to the Margaret Clark Adventure Park most days of the week, a beautiful experience through the River Market District and The Sculpture Garden, with a view of the Arkansas River, and our incredible six bridge skyline. In fact, Little Rock is home to the longest pedestrian and bicycle bridge in the world!  I think that speaks wonders for the importance of a lifestyle where the collaboration with nature is not only valued, but encouraged for overall wellness.



2.  Cost of living and quality of life for families with children 


    I recently asked our daughters if they would rather live on the beach.  They all answered that they love that we can easily visit the beach, and then come back to their favorite place, home. It was a beautiful thing to witness because 2 of our daughters, Ariella Love and Gwendolyn Rose were actually born in Hawaii.  Living in Hawaii in many ways was a dream come true.  But when we made the decision to move back to Little Rock, we found out shortly thereafter that my sweet Momma had stage 4 lung cancer.  We spent over 2 beautiful years being close to her and I always truly felt like living in Little Rock was such a blessing because it helped us spend more time with her since she only lived 4 hours away.  That’s one of the many advantages of Arkansas, location, location, location!  We are a relatively short drive away from most of the things that are important to our family life and allow us to thrive.  It takes us on average of approximately 11 minutes to get to most of our activities.  Day trips to surrounding areas are a common occurrence with our adventurous little girls! 



Another positive aspect of our location is that we get to experience all four seasons, along with the dreamiest 20 inches of record-breaking snowfall this past winter that gave our family the experience of a lifetime!  Living here has also afforded us the opportunity to live on the golf course, a true privilege with a beautiful view that I won’t allow myself to ever grow accustomed to, with quick access to enjoy our favorite game and amenities.  Actually, one of my husband’s contingencies upon moving back here was to become a member of a country club.  Golf is a very therapeutic outlet for my healthcare hero husband who serves on the mental health front lines as a psychiatrist.  We cherish our time spent together as a family playing golf and taking in the breathtaking sunset views!




3.  Major companies with ample employment opportunities: 


    I mentioned earlier that I moved here in 2009 for my residency training, and my husband actually moved here for the same reason.  I completed a PGY-1 Pharmacy Practice Residency at the Central Arkansas Veterans Healthcare System (CAVHS) and my husband completed his Psychiatry Residency at the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences (UAMS).  After my graduation, I worked at Baptist Health Hospital as a clinical pharmacist.  Many assume that Brent and I met at work, but I love that we actually didn’t.  However, both of our ambitions matched us to this state, and ultimately God led us to each other on a day where we were both just out enjoying another beautiful sunny Arkansas afternoon on the water.  We got married and moved away to travel the world in 2012, then returned in 2015 where my husband has had multiple opportunities in building relationships and fulfilling his life’s mission of healing the sick and bringing hope to the broken hearted.  



I call him a doctor, but he calls himself a humble servant.  I will forever be grateful for the hospital systems here in providing high quality healthcare, education, and employment opportunities for the next generation of healers.



4.  Emerging industries like food and technology: 


    My native Texan husband endearingly calls Little Rock, “little Austin.”  Living here is a whole vibe of cultural diversity, good music, art, community, the most delicious food, and in my opinion, some of the world’s best patio dining.  



Good conversations with my sweet French expatriate friend open my eyes even more to the beauty and wonder of how truly fortunate we are to live in a place like this.  Our children have become little foodies requesting meals at their favorite restaurants like The Fold and outings to their very favorite place, The Museum of Discovery, which was recently awarded one of the Top 10 Best Children’s Museums by USA Today! 




We have lived in 3 different neighborhoods here in Little Rock and each one of them was wonderfully unique in the experiences it provided our family.  Hillcrest is a historic neighborhood with a vibrant walking community where my love and I had our very first date after we met and the home in which we welcomed our third daughter, Florence Pearl.  Some of the best restaurants in town are only a short walk away, including the sweetest Saturday morning farmer’s market for locally grown and made foods and flowers.  The River Market downtown is another great neighborhood where everything is within walking distance along with great patios for those beautiful evenings, great music, and sweet sweet memories with my family that will be cherished forever.




    In conclusion, for the million other reasons that I could list for how grateful we are to call Arkansas home, the most important one is that we are exactly where we are meant to be, right now.  We truly believe that home is wherever we are together, and we are so blessed that our togetherness brought us here.  



*Dislaimer: while this is a sponsored post, all words, thoughts, opinions, experiences, & enthusiasms are our own.*


For more information visit this link at Arkansas State Tourism and follow the hashtag #visitarkansas


Monday, February 3

i could have walked, but

i could have walked, but 

then something felt different 
i just knew it was right 
the lines turned from one to two
in that bathroom in the middle of the night
i could have walked, but instead i ran to you

the days that you were born, 
when i heard your hungry cry
when they told me to leave you
so you'd sleep through the night, 
i could have walked, but instead i ran to you

they said that you would be spoiled
and to stop picking you up
the day that you hurt your head
when I heard that thump, 
i could have walked but instead i ran to you

when you took your first scoots 
and then you started crawling, 
when i heard you say your first words
and when you started walking,
i could have walked but instead i ran to you

when you held out your hand 
to hold mine so tight 
when you had a bad dream 
and cried out at night 
i could have walked but instead i ran to you

when you had your first accident
that left your clothes dripping wet,
when you said you didn't feel well
here baby let me feel your head
i could have walked but instead i ran to you

when you heard those hurtful words
that tore your heart into pieces
you dug into my chest 
i wiped your tears with my kisses
i could have walked, but instead i ran to you

vision blurred with tears
as we laid my own mother to rest
on my milk soaked chest at my breast
you needed me to be my best
i could have walked but instead i ran to you

i've since died to myself
you nourish the deepest parts of my soul
i feel you holding me tight
when things feel out of control
on your chest
through your breaths
you could have walked, but instead you ran to me

i cry out through the fog of my fears
so thick i can no longer see
when life is too painful to bear
you could have turned a blind eye to me
you could have walked
you could have
you could have never come at all
but instead you run to me
 

-madina lawlis

previously unpublished photos i finally feel ready to share of our last thanksgiving with my mom 2015

Monday, July 16

$47 Amazon lash booster + 15 of my favorite products for Prime Day & beyond

I don't know much about the Nordstrom sale but I do love Amazon Prime and rely on it for SO many of our purchases!  The 2 day shipping and free returns are lifesavers for this mama of 3, and since we've never had cable, Amazon Video is how they watch most of their favorite shows.  We also shop at Whole Foods and getting free money through using the Whole Foods app for in store coupons is my absolute jam!  I love consolidation and efficiency so this post rounds up some of my absolute favorite purchases that I make through Amazon!  Leave me a comment with a purchase from Amazon that you can't live without!


1.  //THIS LASH BOOST// Ok so everyone has been asking me about what I'm using on my lashes.  Thanks to my sweet friend Julie who got me started on this stuff last year (thanks Jules), I have been using it about every other night on my lashes to keep them full and long.  Give it about 6 weeks of nightly use and you will be shocked at the results!


2.  //MASCARA HEAVEN//
Can't live without my bulk order of Lash Paradise thanks to my amazing sister in love Mindy! The lash boost and mascara are a dynamic duo!!!


3.  //Spin Pins//
We all know how I can't live without these things.  I can do a cute messy top knot every day of the week and my head not hurt!  I carry a couple around every where I go and they always save me from the heat or if I just need to quickly do an updo!  Also, in case you're curious I have a whole blog post dedicated to my love for spin pins with a little tutorial on how I quickly put my hair up, read it here.


Turn heads at the pool with this FABULOUS swim suit!  Put on the suit, get in the pool, and be fabulous! I get 400 compliments every time I wear it, and I always shout out that it was $25 from Amazon because I'm a boujie on a budget hah!


5.  This ChicWish skirt is one of my favorite purchases this summer!  It is so beautiful and breezy and light weight and I can wear it with a million different tops and no one knows when there is sweat running down my legs!


6.  //Waist Trainer//
One of my biggest fitness goals this year is to close my distasis recti.  This works both as a back and core support as recommended by my trainer Devon (@devon.fit, follow her and you will be amazed!).  I have bound my stomach ever since we birthed Ari Love so getting to a waist trainer in this stage of my fitness journey has been amazing!


This is the reason not only did we survive Whole30 with no coffee creamer but the reason we thrived cutting sugar out and I finally acquired the taste for delicious black coffee with velvet almond milk froth on top and a sprinkle of cinnamon! It is so beautiful for having guests over and impressing them with your barista skills by treating them not only to a beautiful drink, but healthy too!  I use it for everything, including my new favorite matcha tea lattes!  Best $32 we ever spent!


8.  Nutpods are the Whole30 approved super duper creamy almond milk sugar free non-processed creamer that I use in my frother to give me the deliciously textured velvet topping for my coffee!  If you've been trying to stop you addiction to coffeemate (ahem I'm talking about me) then these are the perfect substitute!


I have this on recurring order because I can't live without it!  Thanks to my other amazing sister in love who turned me on to it!  I have been using it daily for about 2 years and I immediately feel like the sun is wrinkling my face if I don't have it on.  If you're curious about my skin care routine, I have this whole blog post on it!


10.  //Clarisonic//
I'm coming to terms with my good addictions, and my clarisonic brush is definitely one of them.  It's like, I haven't even really washed my face if I don't use my brush.  I've been using it twice a day, every day since I turned 30!  Thanks again to my LL who turned me onto this too!


I also have this on recurring order and don't feel normal if I don't take my nightly Magnesium y'all.  Who am I?!  It's like the secret sauce for feeling good the next day, helps my sore muscles after a hard work out, keeps you regular (ya, that kind of regular cuz we ain't 21 no more boos hahah) among a variety of other health benefits!


We have tried every single one of the other natural bug repellant products because I am 100% about crunchy mom life and this is the only one that ACTUALLY works for the mutant Arkansas bugs!


13. //More tops (on LEFT) that I'm obsessed with (on RIGHT) perfect for the Fall Transition//



14. //Hydroflask//
Do I need to say more than this is the only way we drink enough water.  


This was on day 8 of no hair washing and only using this dry shampoo.  um ok haha sign me up!!

 
I can think of a lot more things but I rounded up my absolute favorite things that make our life better!  Happy Prime Day!!

xx,
Madina